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gx18

It's confusing. I guess my fundatmentals are still not good enough to understand what you mean.

Anyway, is it possible for you to tell me about my friend's (13 Jan 1985) current 姻缘: when it starts and when it will end?

I just got to know her recently only and we talked a lot online. From what i know her thru' our conversation, I think we has a chance to move on to the next stage. But i find it hard to break down her defences and 'reach out' to her. Could you advise me on what i'm going thru' at the moment? OR how can the situation be improved?

I'm just afraid that this 姻缘 may just slip away, so your golden advice will be very very much appreciated!

Thank you very much!!!

jackchan_b2b

原帖由 gx18 於 2008-6-20 03:46 PM 發表。
It's confusing. I guess my fundatmentals are still not good enough to understand what you mean.

Anyway, is it possible for you to tell me about my friend's (13 Jan 1985) current 姻缘: wh ...

Dear,
I am not confusing you but it is thumb of rule to look at the Time and Event of Happening(Issue and Situation).
Anyway, I will have a check for you on the relationship and do hope both of you find happier to be together.
Don't mistaken that I will tell you how to do for the courtship as Advice is advice, wish you understand.
See You.

gx18

<b>原帖由 <i>jackchan_b2b</i> 於 2008-6-20 04:31 PM 發表。 </b><a href="https://forum.shusquare.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=64645&page=3#pid619352" target="_blank"><img src="https://forum.shusquare.com/images/common/back.gif" border="0" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open('https://forum.shusquare.com/images/common/back.gif');}" onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" alt="" /></a><br />

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Dear,<br />
I am not confusing you but it is thumb of rule to look at the Time and Event of Happening(Issue and Situation).<br />
Anyway, I will have a check for you on the relationship and do hope both  ...

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Hi Jack,

Just wondering how is the reading regarding my relationship with my friend, would it be a good 姻缘 between me and her? Or there is no 姻缘 between us at all?

Thank you so much!

jackchan_b2b

Pardon for late reply as the access to this site from Malaysia is inconsistant.
To start the relationship with this girl is not directly easy from the beginning as she has something(may be the past experience in relationship which still haunted her till now) that prevent her to move a step further with you.
Hence, it is advisable for you to wait till and after mid of July to take action.
Also, you must take care of your feeling, whereby comparison is not allowed for anyone whom you like to live with, else the routine of seperation in realtionship is always be there.
All from your chart and no psychology involved.
Good Luck.

gx18

<b>原帖由 <i>jackchan_b2b</i> 於 2008-6-29 12:09 PM 發表。 </b><a href="https://forum.shusquare.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=64645&page=3#pid621409" target="_blank"><img src="https://forum.shusquare.com/images/common/back.gif" border="0" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open('https://forum.shusquare.com/images/common/back.gif');}" onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" alt="" /></a><br />
Pardon for late reply as the access to this site from Malaysia is inconsistant.<br />
To start the relationship with this girl is not directly easy from the beginning as she has something(may be the p ...

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Dear Jack

Thanks so much for your reply. I'm really surprised that you are so right about her that she is still holding back because of her previous relationship. Right now, I'm curious to know if we are really suited for each other and have a common future together, that is 姻缘.
Because lately, i have found out more about her... about her past, her current lifestyle and her circle of friends. And thru' some discussion on certain issues, we tend to get heated up. These things make me very vex. i'm not that sure if i'm right about her 'cos i have known 2 different side of her. One is her inner self which i get to know when i chat with her online, the other is her outer self when i see her and find her unreachable, as for now. I believe i'm willing to accept the person she is now and move forward together, but are we destined to be?

Thank you so much for guiding me all this while...

jackchan_b2b

Will you paste her date of birth and time of birth her, and also when you meet her.
I will work out from here.
Sometime, psychologically, person who had hurt badly tends to have two or more life. Of course the environment also plays an influence to the person.
So, it is better to work closely on this case.
as long as we don't hurt others.
See you later.

gx18

<b>原帖由 <i>jackchan_b2b</i> 於 2008-6-29 01:32 PM 發表。 </b><a href="https://forum.shusquare.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=64645&page=3#pid621427" target="_blank"><img src="https://forum.shusquare.com/images/common/back.gif" border="0" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open('https://forum.shusquare.com/images/common/back.gif');}" onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" alt="" /></a><br />
Will you paste her date of birth and time of birth her, and also when you meet her.<br />
I will work out from here.<br />
Sometime, psychologically, person who had hurt badly tends to have two or more lif ...

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Her birthdate is 13 Jan 1985, 1436hr. I first knew her online on 31 May 2008 and first see her on 13 June 2008. Hope this info helps.

Thanks so much... really appreciate it.

jackchan_b2b

很保护自己的一个人。
变化无常是她的家常事。
爱上了一个人，但又没信心。不管内心多强，总让步给心爱的人。
如爱她，就要接受的她的无常性格。

爱是可改变一个人，但爱需要很大的勇气及包容心，爱才可长久、才可感受到爱的真諦。

gx18

Thanks so much, Jack! I'll bear in mind your words of wisdom.

Sorie, i felt my question a bit unanswered, so I would like to ask again if we are destined to be together or whether do we really have that 有果的姻缘？
OR is it that i should not mind so much on whether we are destined to be together but should concentrate more on working out our destiny together?
OR is it that if i'm able to understand truely and act upon your last given words of wisdom, then that would be our destiny?


Really appreciate if you would 讲解, and impart a bit more of your words of wisdom, haha...

gx18

Dear Jack,

One thing came into my mind, i wasn't sure if i did the right thing, i need your advise on this. I actually got to know this girl after searching thru' Facebook. I specifically sent my 'friend request' to this girl because of her birthday which i believe that she would have that character that i would like. And maybe i was lucky, she did accept my invitiation and we started chating online, and that's how i knew her.

Have i done a wrong thing?

Probably, she builds up her defences because she felt awkward knowing that that is how i wanted to know her. That's why i hope to know if we are destined to be together, because it seems like i have manipulated the course of events OR could this be the course of events? I'm confused.

Hope you can advise me... if i have done wrong... then i'll let it go... Thanks again!

jackchan_b2b

原帖由 gx18 於 2008-7-2 03:35 PM 發表。
Dear Jack,

One thing came into my mind, i wasn't sure if i did the right thing, i need your advise on this. I actually got to know this girl after searching thru' Facebook. I specifically sent ...

朋友，您的上前一楼的问题，我确实不知如何回答。而前一楼的问题更让我难回答。
因为我不会。。。。也很难向你说可以或不可以，两人的感情及交往在乎于诚意。
错，没关系但要敢认且也可向她说出实情。
平凡、平淡的开始，总会让人意想不到的惊喜。
老实说，我是不会给你一个直接的答案，但我希望你明白我的意思。
人与事在世间上无绝对，时间未到是难定论的。命运在你手中。

gx18

Dear Jack

感谢您的开导。

我之前（去年底）提到的心结已解,放下后却失去了理性,衡冲直撞，胡思乱想.

真的得努力学习不强求,以平凡心面对感情.

非常感激您这些日子帮我看解和开导, thank you very much!

jackchan_b2b

原帖由 gx18 於 2008-7-3 09:53 AM 發表。
Dear Jack

感谢您的开导。

我之前（去年底）提到的心结已解,放下后却失去了理性,衡冲直撞，胡思乱想.

真的得努力学习不强求,以平凡心面 ...

It is ok, and thank you for coming to 术数纵横网及信任这里的论命者。

gx18

Dear Jack

I'm back again!

Lately, things are not going well between me and that girl. I have back off a little and stop forcing things the way i would. I try to make her feel that i sincerely just want to be friends and know her better. But now it seems that this cooling down has make us drift apart. Now, i just feel that this is going nowhere, this friendship seem to be diminishing. I'm not sure what i should do. Should i hang on, still keep trying and hope that things will turn out better or should i stop thinking about it, leave it as it is. I just hope that whatever decision i make is for the better of me and of her. Hope you can give me some advices. Thanks!

jackchan_b2b

原帖由 gx18 於 2008-7-21 06:17 PM 發表。
Dear Jack

I'm back again!

Lately, things are not going well between me and that girl. I have back off a little and stop forcing things the way i would. I try to make her feel that i sincere ...

Hold on first and let the time pass by till mid of August.